'Unknown', in view of the problems that you have posted, I have been giving this matter some thought.
If you are posting the concerns of a number of different people, or even if you are suggesting various topics for discussion, then it would really help us to know this.
If, however, you are posting genuine issues, that you, yourself, are personally attempting to deal with, then I do think that you need more support and help that we on the forum can give ~ though we will do what we can.
May I suggest that you print out the problems, as you have described them to us ~ you can access them via the link above ~ and take them to show your doctor and / or counsellor, who should be able to give you the help, advice and support that you need.
Some of the issues that you have described sound quite serious, so I would recommend that you get an urgent appointment with your doctor and ask him or her to help you deal with all this.
