SDG, I think that you believe that you may be in love with her and that you want her to love you.

However, you are wary of finding out exactly what she feels in case it isn't what you want.

You can carry on like this ~ not knowing for sure, but able to imagine whatever you wish ~ or you can discuss the matter with her in a mature and adult manner.

Only you can decide what to do.

But just how long can you continue not knowing ~ not knowing if you are in a relationship or not, not knowing if you should date other girls or not, not knowing if you have a future with her or if it's all a bit of a dream?

Last edited by PDM; 09/11/08 11:26 PM. Reason: typo

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