burnedagain, opps, I see you did post again with an update. One: i think your letter was very nice. Great job. You showed empathy and openness. I am impressed.
As far as your text conversation, it really does seem like she is pretty mad about the whole thing.
Moving on sounds like the best choice for you. I would continue to be friendly and civil to this girl when you see her (don't burn any bridges; you never know what the future will hold), but take a deep breath and let this girl go from your soul.
I think you have learned a few things, are a nice person overall, and will be just fine.
