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Consider your Partner�s Feelings
Flirting on its own is great fun. It makes you feel good, and it makes the flirtee feel appreciated too. However, if you�re obviously flirting with someone while your partner sits, wanting to be with you, your partner will wonder why you choose to spend time with someone else instead of him/her. To make your partner sit alone and just watch while you spend time and energy making someone *else* feel good can hurt your partner greatly.
You�re supposed to be the �special one� for your partner, and visa versa. If your partner is feeling neglected, while you�re spending all your time and attention with someone else, that�s going to cause trouble.
It�s one thing if you�re both at a party having fun, and while he talks to some people you�re flirting with others. Flirting is fun, after all! But if you�re somewhere that your partner has never been, and you �abandon� him or her to go off and flirt, that�s not very fair. You need to balance the needs of your partner with your own desires to meet new people.
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