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Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old MaleOk, I'm a 16 year old guy who likes these 2 14 year old girls. The 2 girls are best friends with each other and I am good friends with both of them. We have recently come back from a school trip. The trip was 7 days long, and took 22 hours to get to our destination on bus. After being with them for 7 days, i've started to develop feelings for one girl and i already had feelings for the other girl. One girl sat infront of me and the other sat to my right on the bus. We all talked a lot and would throw paper and random things at each other. Both of them seemed to move closer to me and our feet/legs would be touching from quite some time during the ride. They both try to act like "my mother" by telling me what i can and cant do or who i can and cant date. The problem in this is that i told 1 of the girls that i liked her about 2 weeks ago and her other friends said that she didnt like me like that. I wasnt too sure if that was the truth or not but i accepted it and now im wondering whether i should retell the one girl that i like her and see if she feels the same way or if i should tell the other girl that i like her?
plz help if you can,
thank you
RomanceClass.com AdviceIt's time to make up your mind. Say yes to one and let the other one slide.
You will find yourself in a mess of trouble if you play around too much with these girls... after all they are friends too.
Believe the one who says she doesn't feel about you that way. She and her friend probably talked it out and have an agreement.
Drag this out too much and you may find yourself with zero girls instead of two.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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Date both