The first kiss
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old MaleOkay there is this girl i really like and we have known each other for about 4 weeks now.We aren't going out yet thoguh.I've just been taking it slow and easy.We have a date coming up and thats when i wanted to ask her to be my g/f.And after i ask her,what should i do.Should i hug her or give her a soft kiss on the cheek or would it be alright to go with a french kiss?
RomanceClass.com AdviceKissing is an incredibly intimate act between two people and should always be something you BOTH are quite ready for. So lunging into a french kiss on your very first date is probably not a good idea, if you haven't even kissed before! I would ask her to be your girlfriend, and if she says yes, I would give her a gentle hug and then kiss her softly on the cheek. Then you can sit together close to each other, and she will make it pretty obvious to you if she wants more or if that is the moment she wants to treasure as is.
-- from Jenn
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