Husband lies about liking black women
Visitor's Question from a 61-70 year old FemaleI recently found several dozen web sites on my husbands computer regarding naked black women. This upsets me because years ago when we were about to be kicked out of our house because I was the only one working and I could not pay the rent, he took my last 40 dollars and told a black stripper he would give her the money to show him it was "pink inside". He denys having any fantasies about black women, but their are dozens of porn sites.This really upsets me because I fear that I, a white woman, isnt really what he wants. Please help, why would he lie about that?
RomanceClass.com AdviceHe is lying to you because he is turned on by black women.
He probably knows that you would be upset by it, and you are.
So, it all depends on how strongly you feel about this. You can kick him out, or tell him to cut it out, or put up with it.
I can't tell you what to do.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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