My GF is jealous of everything and anything.
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old MaleIn 2 days its going to be a full year. We dated a long time ago, puppy love like. Than we started hanging out again and now its been a year of a great relationship. The problem is the not stop fighting over pointless stuff. I know its something hard for some to deal with, but its getting out of hand. She gets jealous over everything. Watching tv, with half naked girls popping up every now and than, which i cant control, she say " ya like that." She thinks i hide stuff from her. She thinks are friends, who we havent chilled with in a longgg time flirt with me, and I flirt back,or ignore her, which isnt true in my visions. I dont flirt with other girls. And than the past experiences. Or taking a pic with my arm on a girls shoulder.She gets upset immediatly than freaks. I dont know what to do anymore, I dont know what will stop her jealousy, even though I know thats its going to ultimatly tear us apart.
Any suggestions, cause I love her soo much.
RomanceClass.com AdviceYes, jealousy will tear you up if you allow it to.
Try ignoring her jealous comments and acts. It will drive her crazy at first but hopefully in the long run she will grow out of her fears if you ignore her.
Also ask her to see this webpage about trust:
http://www.coping.org/growth/trust.htm
You take a look at it too.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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Don't hurt her
