i lost my girlfriend because of my jealousy
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Maleok. ive been dating this girl for 3 months. and i get jealous when i see other guys hanging around her. i kept quiet about and i didnt say anything. but my jealousy just kept getting worse. i finaly talked to her about it. and at first she understood. and she told me that she would not let any guys hit on her or anything. but then i just kept getting worse and then we started having arguments about it and just the other day we had a big argument and then she just finaly said "I cant do this anymore. its over" so i lost her because of my jealousy. i want her back so bad. we had a great relationship until i said anythimg about being jealous. maybe i just should have kept quiet about it. shes my first girlfriend and im new to dating but i really want her back. we have so much in comon that its not funny. and i just want her back more than anything. what do i do?
RomanceClass.com AdviceFirst read the 100 plus tips we already have on this site:
http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveSCat/23682
Then read a good website on trust:
http://www.coping.org/growth/trust.htm
After you've done this, tell your ex that you made a very strong effort through research to change your ways and that you would like a second chance.
Good luck! George
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