Jealousy
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old MaleI have been dating this girl for alittle over a months. And things are almost perfect except for her guy friends. See I met her on Myspace and she has alot of "e-guyfriends"(most of them guys she has dated or slept with or ex-boyfriends). I have alot of girls on Myspace also but they are girls I went to school with and nothing ever went on with them. She asked me not to talk to my ex's on Myspace, so I took them off. But when I asked the same she flipped out. And anytime I talk to my ex's on there, she gets pissed. But again she can do it. I have had alot of my girlfriends cheat on me(and I know that's part of the problem).But she just got out a 2 year relationship with some dude that cheated on her. What should I do? I don't want to lose her, but I don't want to go on not trusting her...
RomanceClass.com AdviceJust give up the jealousy and trust her.
We have a lot of tips on beating jealousy. Take a look:
http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveCat/23682
Also to build up your trust take a look at this website:
http://www.coping.org/growth/trust.htm
Jealousy is a tough thing to beat.
One suggestion is that you should continue to contact your ex's since she is doing it. Don't let her push you around.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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