WhenShouldITellHer?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Malei wanna tell this girl i like her but i dont if i can. she is my best friend but i had feelins 4 her since the day we met and they only gotten stronger. i told her once i like her and she avoid me cauz she thought i would bug her. but i prove her wrong and were best friend. but i still like her more then a freind. she kinda likes another and he likes her, they arent goin out but they like each other. somethings when were together i want2 tell her but i force myself not 2 but sometimes i wish i can. but im not sure if shes even worth it cuaz i have all year likin her and tryin 2 get close but im still stuck in friends zone. i tried countless time 2 get ova her 2 like goin out w/ another or likin another or w/e but none of it wrks. i just like her 2 much. wat should i do? should i tell her, wait give up or wat?
RomanceClass.com AdviceYou two are good friends, right?
So she should care about your feelings just like you care about hers.
Tell her that you are "developing feelings" for her and ask how she feels.
Tell her that it is very important that you remain friends too.
She should not feel threatened by hearing this and since she cares for you she will be gentle and understanding of how you feel.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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Life is too short
ask her out
