love and cheat
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old FemaleI live in a country where the idea of the girl sleeping with a man or even kissing him before engagement or marriage is unacceptable. People are closed minded, even men, they consider a girl who they kissed as a bitch and they don't respect her or think about marrying her. So i'm not allowed to kiss my boyfriend or let him do this because then he will not respect me.
Anyway, i created a different email account and i started chatting with my boyfriend as if i'm some other girl, and what i knew was horrible. I knew that he picks girls from the internet and have fun with them, ( have sex) online or on the phone, and i also knew that he would go sleep with a girl only to satisfy his desires if he could but he didn't do it yet. However, he said that he has a girl friend ( me) who he is not willing to play with her feelings for sex because he loves her and her respects her.
Still he lies to me, he could be having a dirty chat with a girl and tell me he is doing something else like playing video games. My question is , is it possible that a man loves a girl and cheats on her like this?? Maybe it's a man thing and i dunno it
RomanceClass.com AdviceIt is very difficult for me to answer a question from a culture which is so different from my own.
His behavior is reasonably normal as I see it, but in your culture he may be acting very bad.
Too bad you can't have an honest talk with him and clear the air.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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