HOW DO WE DO IT
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old MaleMe and this girl are madly in love with each other and we are even thinking after highschool about getting married but theres one problem her mom hates me for no reason and my girl firend isnt really supposed to be dating anyone my girlfriend is willing to go behind her mothers back and I love her with all my heart and it gets stressful having to meet in secret and having to look over our shoulders we kiss and we are both madly in love with eachother and in about a year she said shed give up her virgintity for me when she started the pill but im afraid that her mom will find out see her mom is upset that her childhood is over so she lives her life through her daughter and she fixes her daughter up with total jerks im the only guy thats respected her and truly loved her but her mom just dosent even understand that im good for her and that shes wrong we both love each other so what should I do
RomanceClass.com AdviceI'm sorry you are in this tough situation.
Trying to get parental approval is very difficult. Although it isn't easy, try to get good grades, do well in sports, same in class officers/clubs. Then you GF could tell her mother about the good things you are doing.
Also, if her mother ever sees you, make sure you are dressed well, nice shoes, good pants and shirt, a normal haircut (as a mother would see it.) If she does see you then she will be impressed.
These things may seem superficial and useless, but some of them will actually work toward your overall good--getting into a good college for example.
As I said, this isn't an easy thing to resolve.
Best luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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