Getting her back
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Maleok well I have a sticky issue. I was talking/dating this girl for a few months and we had our ups and downs but for the most part we loved eachother. Now a few days ago we got in a really big fight and she hung up on me and ignore all of my calls. Now in reaction to that I got really pissed and said and did somethings that I really regret. She basically ended up changing her number and blocking me from her IM and reading my emails but not responding to any of them. I know I should have put my pride aside but I didnt and reallt messed up. I love her and always did and I want her back but after she did that is there any hope that I have a chance in getting her back? I really dont know what to do I sent her several emails saying that I was sorry. I realize that I messed up i just want to get her back. Now all this happened within a weekend. So I dont know if she is doing this because she is really still mad at or bc she is just done with me. Well I hope you have some suggestions for me thanx.
RomanceClass.com AdviceSend her some flowers and dark chocolate with a sweet note saying you are sorry and want to try again.
Do this as soon as possible so she won't have time to solidify her position against you. You are in a deep hole so expect this to take time if she is going take you back. After the flowers, write and ask her out to a nice, quiet dinner at a good restaurant.
Hopefully this will turn the trick and things will come back to normal.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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