Can't live without her
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old MaleI met this girl a long time ago in high school and she came on to me but i wasn't ready for a relationship. She dated around, meanwhile i stayed single, we became really close friends. Eventually in our senior year we started dating. She was my first GF and my first kiss. We dated for a few months then she dumped me for her ex...we stayed in contact and actually at graduation she dumped him and we went to prom and started seeing eachother again. I did everything i could to make her happy and we never fought. We've broken up/gotten together a few times now and i'm miserable without her. I tried not talking to her but it didn't work. I actually have sent her e-mails and wrote her poems on how i have felt. I just don't know what to do...I want her back for good. What should I do?
RomanceClass.com AdviceTo get her back, send her flowers and a box of dark chocolates.
Once you get her back, your task becomes more difficult and that is to get her back for good. No guarantees, of course.
If she comes back you will need to learn to be a good communicator. Share feelings with each other. Be affectionate to her. Trust her and be sure she has no reason to distrust you. Call her every day and talk with her as much as you can.
Good luck!
George
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Miserable without her
