He's Out of the Country
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old FemaleThere is this guy who used to live in my neighbourhood ever since I was young. I don't know when I fell in love with him but all I remember is that, I started seeing him in my dreams almost every night. This was three years ago and I still see him in my dreams even thoungh he travelled last year and is still not back.
I really love him and I'm so confused whether he also loves me. He used to be very shy of him, and mostly anytime he talks to me, he seems so scared and finds it difficult to complete any sentence he makes. He has tried so many times to talk to me, sometimes through his fiends but I do not give him the chance and now he is gone out of the country.
How do I know if he loves me back because I love him so much and I'm always seeing him in my dreams. I really need help, I'm so confused.
RomanceClass.com AdviceIt sounds like you were fond of him and he was fond of you. So find a way to talk with him! Surely with the internet there's some way to email him or talk with him on Facebook. Make that your quest. Talk to his friends and family and figure out his contact information. Then write him and ask him how he's doing. Make that first starting point. Don't worry about anything else yet. Just focus on making that initial contact.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com