I Love Both Brothers
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old FemaleA few years ago I met this guy and we got together. I didn't know much about him like he had a brother.
well about a year or two after him I met this other guy and we kinda fell for each other. I find out he is brothers with the other guy who is still obsessed with me.
and now me and the guy I want to be with can't be together cause his brother is all suicidal and I don't know what to do.
they both say they love me and I think I love them both
RomanceClass.com AdviceFamily relationships can be incredibly rough. Brothers are brothers for life. The two-brothers-one-woman scenario is a classic throughout mythology and epic romances down through the ages. So this is about as challenging as it gets.
If someone is suicidal that comes first. Get him help. Get him therapy and medication. That needs to be handled.
When he is in a more stable place where he can see life more clearly, then other things can be worked on.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
