I'm Jealous of my Boyfriend's Ex
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Femalehow do i stop becoming jealous of my boyfriends ex? i have been with him 8 months and love him to pieces and trust him. but i dont like them being friends, i believe she still likes him or that she doesnt want him to be happy with me.
its killing me this jealousy. ive talked to him about it. but we dont know what to do.
please help asap
RomanceClass.com AdviceJealousy has existed for thousands of days, the legends of Greek and Roman jealousies still exist! So jealousy is not unusual but you do need to get it under control before it destroys your relationship. Yes, your boyfriend has an ex. Yes, they are still friends! But YOU are his current girlfriend and you need to accept that and not fear that he's going to leave you. A relationship has to be based on trust, and you have to trust in him and his love.
I have a full course here -
http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/howto/jealousy/index.asp
work through it and build up your trust in each other!
-- from Jenn
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