I'm Extremely Jealousy
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old FemaleThe problem i am having is that i am too jealous and have been for the past year and a half. Me and my partner have been together for 3 years and i have gradually got extremley worse. But it is getting to the point that my boyfriend is questioning our future together and not wanting to spend time with me. I feel i am jealous because i am scared of losing him but by being jealous we are drifting apart anyway. He feels we will always be this way now and i need to show him that i can be a different, better person. Is there anything i can do to get our relationship back on track and make him believe in me again.
RomanceClass.com AdviceThere are a TON of tips and pages of advice on this site about how to handle jealousy. As you say, jealousy can easily destroy just about any relationship. The more jealous you get, the more unstable the relationship gets. Consider this an extremely serious issue to get a handle on, and work on it daily. Show him that you really are taking this quite seriously so that he helps you with it.
-- from Lisa
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