He Treats me Poorly - I Want to Leave
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old FemaleHi. OK, well I'm "seeing" a guy right now and to make a long story short, he treats me very badly, ignores me, hides our relationship, and I'm not sure if he's using me. I have left him time and time before and then tried finding a better one, but I can't seem to get over him. I could never find anyone that made me feel the way the guy I'm currently with made me feel. No one seemed right for me. Everything reminded me of him, all I did was think about him, and so I keep going back to him everytime. Please help me. How do I get over him, I'm so ready to move one to someone else, but I just can't let him go. Thanks.
RomanceClass.com AdviceBreaking up definitely takes a while to get over the rebound period. It sounds like you didn't give yourself long enough.
Read all my tips on breaking up, and then set yourself a full month of time to work through it. Break up and then follow the steps. It won't be easy - breaking up is never easy - but it sounds like it'll be very important in your life to do this.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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Take time
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