Talking to my Crush
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old MaleI really have a desparate crush on this girl whos in my school, two years younger than me, . The only problem is when I was trying to get close to her by talking to her freinds on Im and such and sometimes in school. I havn't actually exanged more than a few words in conversation with the girl I actually like but I think she's not really talking to cos she thinks i like her freinds. It's still just a suspicion though, im not sure wether it's that or she's just not interested.
I havn't got her IM address yet, but I have told her friends that I like her and they have kinda refused to give an opinoin. Does this mean there keeping a promised secret for their freind, not to tell me that she liked me or are they all silently thinking 'oh my, he doesn't stand a chance with her, better not hurt his feelings though'
I just don't know what to think or do, please help me :(
RomanceClass.com AdviceYou never ever get a full story if you play the telephone game with friends. The only way to know how someone feels is to talk to them. Your aim has to be to become friends with her. Stop fooling around with pumping the friends for information. Just chat with her. Every day. I have a TON of flirting tips on the site, read them. Use them. Learn them, and become her friend.
-- from Lisa
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Tell the Girl
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