Lost my virginity and it still hurts!
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old FemaleI had sex for the first time on the 15th. He was big and tore me, I started bleeding immediatley after, and am still in pain and bleeding badly. Is this normal? How much longer am I going to bleed?
RomanceClass.com AdviceI'm sorry your first experience was painful. I hope the next time you will take the time to be gentle and wait until you're fully ready to receive him, then there won't be the pain you're feeling now.
Since it's 3 days later and you're still in pain, I recommend that you go visit the doctor to make sure things are healing properly. Imagine if you'd cut your hand instead... you wouldn't expect for it to heal this quickly, would you? Same thing. But you don't want to have scar tissue or have it heal improperly. A doctor would be able to help you out better.
Good luck!
-- from Marc
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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