im really lost cause i love him with all my heart
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Femalei was seeing this guy for about 2 months and he broke up with me for another girl..well ive been head over heals for him since i was 3 years old....he took my virginity..my first kiss and hug...and lately hes been in my life a lot and im falling for him again..and he flirts with me REALLY bad and he has a girlfriend...im really lost cause i love him with all my heart.. i have no idea what to do now!
RomanceClass.com AdviceI understand that you love him and that he's making it impossible to forget him. Thing is, if he has a girlfriend, the right thing to do is remind him of this every time he flirts with you. This will either shame him into doing the right thing and not flirt with you (though you really enjoy it!) or it'll get him to break up with his girlfriend. Either way, you're doing the right thing.
Normally, I would suggest that you find someone new to take your mind off this guy, but I suspect that you won't go along with it.
I wish you the best, and I hope it all works out.
-- from Marc
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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