WE BROKE UP CAUSE LATELY I HAVE TREATED HER LIKE S###
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old MaleMY GIRLFRIEND AND I JUST BROKE UP AFTER ALMOST 3 YEARS SHE IS 18 AND IM 20 AND THIS GUY AT HER WORK THAT IS 28 LIKES HER WE BROKE UP CAUSE LATELY I HAVE TREATED HER LIKE S### SHE SAYS AND HAVE BEEN TALKING DOWN TO HER. SHE SAID SHE ISNT ATTRACTED TO ME ANYMORE CAUSE MY PERSONALITY HAS CHANGED DO YOU THINK THAT THERE IS STILL A CHANCE TO GET BACK TOGETHER I AM STILL MADLY IN LOVE WITH HER AND I KNOW THAT SHE LOVES ME WHAT SHOULD I DO WE JUST BROKE UP YESTERDAY?
RomanceClass.com AdviceThere is always a chance. Send flowers. Don't email or call her. It will look desperate and can be annoying if you call or email over and over again.
In your flowers, send a card asking her to let you know if she would be willing to start again and ask her what you did wrong so that you will know what you have to do. However, and this is a big however, be willing to compromise, but not on your convictions. Remember, you are willing to modify a behavior, but not change who you are. It's not fair for anyone to ask that of anyone, regardless of gender.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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