See a marriage counselor
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old FemaleI have been married for 6 1/2 years. I found someone else after the 5th year fo marriage. I am hating my marriage right now. MY husband and I have not been intimate for well over a year. We are like roommates...share bills. We have separate bedrooms. We do however have a 3 1/2 year old son. And try to make our issues unknown to him. He is so good and so smart!
My SO is also in a bad marriage and has three children. We want to divorce our spouses and start our lives together with our children.
Your thoughts/advice?
RomanceClass.com AdviceBoth couples should see counselors to sort out the separate issues. If you want divorces the counselors will help in that area. You should have no trouble keeping your child, but my guess is that your SO will not get his so easily. He ought to know that before making up his mind.
Happy holidays!
George
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