i had a gut feeling he was cheated so i asked, he lied said no and even cried
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Femalemy boyfriend and I have been going out for 9 months now. he cheated on me during the rhird month of our relationship he says he just kissed the girl and it was only once he has not seen her since nor cheated.the reason why i founbf it was because i had a gut feeling he was cheated so i asked, he lied said no and even cryed. i kept asking and asking until he finally just told me. he says they didnt have sex but i dont believe him. i love him so much but i dont trust him at all! what do i do? oh we live two hours away from eachother he was born and raised in LA me in SD. he lives at home and i live at home. i know he had sex with her how do i find out or should i just not care? Im 20yrs old hes 19. He says he loves me with a passion i believe him...i think?
RomanceClass.com AdviceHow can a good relationship last when on of the partners doesn't trust the other?
You are going to have to trust him or call it quits.
Or perhaps you can forgive him?
My advice is to drop your investigation of what happened, mainly because you probably won't find out. Then the choice is your.
Good luck!
George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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