i also understand that "porn" is just another thing that most guys include in thir lives,
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Femalei have a jealousy problem:
my problem goes beyond ex girlfriends, it is pretty much about EVERYTHING. i know that i love my boyfriend very much so i try to ignore it, but that doesn't stop it from eating away at me. you see, i think that maybe i am so insecure about myself that i hate thinking that he is fantasizing about another girl. i know that he is going to think that other people are attracted, but it make me nevervous that maybe he desires them more. and my problem is that its with famous women. i hate the thought that they have something i dont have that maybe he wishes i did. i completely understand that he'll most likely never have a chance with them but i hate thinking if he had the chance, he would change things about me. i also understand that "porn" is just another thing that most guys include in thir lives, however i cant stand that while he is giving himself pleasure he is not thinking of me... he is thinking of the jenna jameson, or some playboy bunny. it just pisses me off so much that he is fantasizing about them, even though it may be a normal thing. please help.
RomanceClass.com AdviceYou have a mountain to climb!
You are completely jealous of your boyfriend and he has done nothing to deserve it. He sounds perfectly normal to me.
I think you realize that you are the abnormal one here.
Try this... everytime you get jealous pinch yourself so hard it hurts. That will be your reminder that you are having a problem. You will probably get tired of pinching yourself and give up worrying so much.
If this doesn't work, I recommend you see a counselor for help.
Good luck!
George
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