I Love my Girlfriend - but I CheatedWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male I have been with my girlfriend for almost 2 months and everything is going great, i have never cheated in my life and i told her i would never cheat. 2 months have passed, I am not in love with her yet but i do see it happening. last night i gave into temptation and slept with another girl. This girl was all over me and i told her to not get up on me like that because i had a girlfriend, i was drunk and i gave in and started messing around with her and eventually slept with her. I feel so bad,i feel that i dont deserve my girlfriend, She is such a perfect girl, one that i could marry down the road. i just dont know if im ready for such a perfect girl but i dont want to give her up and lose something that could have made me happy for the rest of my life. so now i feel bad and dont know what to do. But one thing i do know is i really like my girlfriend alot and dont want to lose her for some one night stand. please help me i dont want to cheat! User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male Big mistake If you love her that much and want to hang on to her. You can't tell her. Because if you do, then what you have or had is now gone. It is wrong not to tell but once she finds out either from you or anyone else then your relationship is pretty much done. Unless you both love each other that much and can get over almost anything. But then again this is a serious matter. It's up to you if you want to or not. I was in the same situation. I told, big mistake! The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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