I kept telling him that I was going to leave,but never did



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Original Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Female
I wrote before regarding my reationship with an older man while I have been married.He does not have any children and he is not married.He told me that we couldnt see each other anymore because he was feeling guilty and I think he wants me to leave my husband.I kept telling him that I was going to leave,but never did.I have not heard from him in almost two months.I have written him letters but he has not responded.It is like I have disappeared from his life.I love this man so much and I just dont know what to do.




User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Male
don't chase


I am in the same situation. i just worry that we're not caught up with the excitement this new relationship offers. I love my wife more than anything yet I am "falling in love" with someone else. I am trying to escape my stress: Bills, kid with special needs etc... So the best thing to do is not to start a relationship before you leave your spouse.
As far as this guy not wanting to be bothered with you. I suggest you actually leave your spouse than contact him. Or try and find peace and happiness within your home. But don't keep chasing him until you actually leave cause thats not fair

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