Being Friends with my ExWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female i broke up with my boyfriend like a little before the summer...and I'm still not over him, i'm trying as much as i can but all the good times are keeping me from getting over him. but i also want to be his friend but i need to show him i'm not like i was before. can u help me out a bit?? User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female Explore his options Well I can't really tell you nothing because I am in the same situation. I am 16 and I will be 17 teen in like a week. And i mean my my boyfriend broke up with me through a letter saying that he wanted us to just be friends and saying the only reason he was breaking up with me was because there are alot of girls who want him and that he didn't want to cheat on me and the he love me enough to not cheat on. We have been going out since i was in the 8th-grade and now i am in the 11th and that is three whole years. He is my everything. I want him back but right now he is talking to so many girls he should be assamed i mean we make eye contact at school we speak he even walk me to class and all i do is cry everytime i see him with a girl and it is so hard for me and he just don't know i never ever have time to talk to him because he always surrounded by girls. I mean he wrote me another note saying that he want to be with ne but he don't want to cheat on me. And i told him that maybe he should think on that because i don't need a amn who is going to cheat on me because i kbow for a fact that i would be so hurt is that was to happen and i told him if he loved me enough he would not cheat on me and hesaid that he knows that but it is hard because he done been with me so long and that he want to explore his options. so i said that is ok. He gave me a hug and started crying and yes he was very confronting and yes he told me he loved me but he still wanted to explore his options. And yes it hurts. But right about now i will do anything for him to be back in my life. I am even thinking about giving my virginity to him. i mean yes i am a virgin but maybe if i let him take it he will want me back. i am sorry i wrote this i know this is the advice colunm. But i just had to get that off of my chest. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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