I Love my Girlfriend - but I CheatedWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male I have been with my girlfriend for almost 2 months and everything is going great, i have never cheated in my life and i told her i would never cheat. 2 months have passed, I am not in love with her yet but i do see it happening. last night i gave into temptation and slept with another girl. This girl was all over me and i told her to not get up on me like that because i had a girlfriend, i was drunk and i gave in and started messing around with her and eventually slept with her. I feel so bad,i feel that i dont deserve my girlfriend, She is such a perfect girl, one that i could marry down the road. i just dont know if im ready for such a perfect girl but i dont want to give her up and lose something that could have made me happy for the rest of my life. so now i feel bad and dont know what to do. But one thing i do know is i really like my girlfriend alot and dont want to lose her for some one night stand. please help me i dont want to cheat! User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male looking for comittment here's the answer your looking for: From what i have read about your situation this is your first offence. my suggestion is forget about the whole thing happend and move on. sometimes people are confused by love your like me asking yourself if you really love your girlfriend/boyfriend. 1. you feel horrible about doing it. 2. you feel like you don't deserve her. 3. you don't want to give her up. this elimnates all your confusion otherwise you wouldn't feel like a huge peice of crap being run over by a car twice. Now this is a life lesson and you will never ever ever do it again! this is a good thing to keep in the back of your mind and remember time will heal your wounds trust me but what you need to do now is move on and forget it happend yeah it's a shitty thing to do but your not gunna feel any better by destroying your entire world However! if this happends again you need to cut her loose it was never meant to be. cheating once is an accident cheating twice is no accident you either don't love her/him and never have or you are a weak person who needs to be single till you get strong enough to say No! i'm taken check out my information i spent 45 minutes at 1 bar and 45 minutes at another the first bar i went as an average single male and came up with 3 hits. the same 45 minutes at another bar playing the part of a married male i had recived 13 hits. this will show females are attracted more towards married men. why you ask? 1 simple reason, showing that a male is married shows that you are not afraid of commitment thats right i said it! it's the one thing females are looking for. now i'm NOT saying all females are like this just stating what i have learned to help others this is where being weak is a BAD THING! and thats why people need to be single till they get strong enough to say get away from me i am taken! this is easyer done by doing everything with your partner if you go somewhere they go with unless you go to work then your on your own and need to be strong but if your out with friends and your partner is with you then you have nothing to worry about because you will be defended by your partner. anyway i got off the topic somewhat but this is all helpful information The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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