I love to do cute little things for her but we are separated nowWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male ok well ive been dating this girl for like 2 years and we have been on and off lately i love her with all my heart i love to do cute little things for her but ive been feeling like she takes me for granted and dosent love me as much as i love her i bought her a locket a while ago and a ring but she never really wore any of them i always take her on cute romanitc dinner and dates like concerts i bye her chocolate and flowers for no reason but we dectied to take a break to realize what we want she told me that she was not going to go clubbing in the time she was thinking about actually persuing something serious with me but she lied she did go clubbing it was my b day when i found out i felt sad and mad because she lied and she also talked to a boy i dont get along with i fought him a while ago i restpeted her by not talking to girls she has problems with and i feel she dont respect me she has broken my heart once and this is the second time i broke up with her on my b day but i want her to call me i thought she woulud realize what she is losing but i havent had a call from her i dont know what to do the first time we broke up i called her telling her how much i loved her and that we could work things out i would bye her flowers and place them on her door step i guess i was expecting her to do the same for me i still love her and want to be with her but at the same time i feel like i cant take the heat break any more what should i do please help me im going crazy IM 17 YEARS OLD User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female Taking you for granted? You know she might be taking you for granted and just using you thats what my boyfriends ex did to him she used him for his money but she might not and she might really like those things but just doesnt know how to show it very well some people come from different homes and they have different ways of showing there love to people. the only thing i would do is talk to her tell her how you feel you never know she may open up to you and tell you things about her no one else knows and maybe open your eyes and see how she feels but i mean you really have nothing to lose because if she doesnt like you atleast you wont keep on doing these things and falling harder but you also might gain things like her love and trust. FOLLOW YOUR HEART Lauren The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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