I want my boyfriend backWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female My boyfriend of 4 months broke up with me a month ago and I miss him badly. We both loved each other very much. We spent every minute together and had a very healthy relationship. It took him a month to tell me why he broke up with me. He told me he is afraid of commitment and is scared of being so close to someone at a young age (I am 15 he is 16 turning 17 in a month) and he is afraid of going back out with me because he knows he will get close to me again. I tried to tell him that we didnt have to have that seriouse of a relationship until he is ready because I understand but that really hasnt done much. He did tell my friend that he was thinking about getting back together with me but im pushing him away. But I dont see how!!! I have totally left him alone, I dont bug him about us getting back together and I dont try and pry into his life I simply act like a friend because when he broke up with me he told me he still wanted to be friends. I think he does miss me he doesnt flirt with anyone and he looks sad his actions are different and you can tell he has changed. Please help me get my boyfriend back. Please help me know what to do and say to him without pushing him away. PLEASE I just want my boyfriend back! User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female Love changed Let them come to you show them that you can make it on your own because if you show them that you are nothing with out them they always take advantage of the situation i was going out with my ex boyfrien for 9 months and one day he just said he didnt have the same feelings for me no more i told him sence when he said about 2 weeks he told me he loved me and that i was the first girl he had feelings for i told him how can love turn into something else know we use to argue everytime we saw eachother because he always tryed to impress his friends know im 2 months pregnant and all he told me was lets just be friends what kind of B-S is that. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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