i would never cheat on him but i dont know if i should break up or what



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hi alright theres this guy i have liked for.. 3 years almost and the first like year and a half i liked him i was basically obbsessed and all he did was use me and made me feel really bad a lot but its been almost 2 years sense then and hes so much differnt now and hes apologizzed and i know he means it and i do like him a lot and he likes me and he wants to like start hanging out and getting to know eachother then he said maybe become more and i want that too but i have a boyfriend he lives very far away from me and i only see him 2 weeks in the summer =and i would never cheat on him but i dont know if i should break up or what cause i really want to get to know the guy ive liked for that long but then i dont want to leave my boyfriend and i dotn know if our relationship is even working so i dont want to pass up on the guy i liked what should i do..




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new boy


im inthe same situation cause i have a boyfriend who never calls me and acts like he called the da before but i no that he didnt cause i was home but he still insists that he called and then he calls me and wants to come over so of course he does but it seems like theres other stuff on his mind from the way that hes always looking the other way and messing with stuff and im always the one giving him kisses and i met another guy and hes so much more closer to my age and calls me everyday and he seees me everyday but were not dating because if m* my boyfriend now and its just that m* doesnt act like a boyfriend and weve been dating for 6 months and it seems like weve gone r seperate ways since the begining cause hes always to busy for me and he'll show up then leave for about a month or to then come back its like a doog that gets fed every 2 months it comes back but then leaves thats what he is like but ill admit it yes im scared to break up with him and i dont no y but i have broken up with him a few times and he always has this way of making me feel bad and going back out with him when really i just want to break it off and move on but i cant and also he goes to a school calles tri-rivers and its totally diffrent from my school its just that hes always to busy for me for example last night he called me and the whole time i was on the phone with him he kept saying whats rong i no that theres something rong with you and there was but i kept on saying no theres nothing rong and deep down inside i just wanted to say matt kinkaid were having problems in are relationship and its not me its you your the one not calling me or coming over and the only time you call me or come over is when its convinent for you so were over. but i just cant seem to do that cause 6 months is along time to be dating then break up with him that would be hard hes not making me feel the way he did in the begining now hes just making me feel like he doesnt like me anymore but i havent a clue he wants to come over today and i want to break up with him today but its going to be to hard and this new guy name k* hes very sweet he calls me everyday comes and sees me everyday and he actually talks to me and we go places together last night we went to the american legin and i had no clue how to play pool or darts so he showed me and helped me but m* would never do that everybodys telling me i should get rid of dumb ass m* and date k* and i no that there right well i need to go think i took the day off to c wut im going to do so c your not alone!!!!!!!!!!! thank you
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