when I talked to someone else and didn't tell him, he freaked outWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me 5 days ago, saying that he couldn't trust me. I already let him look at my phones and read email if he was worried. Although neither of us has ever cheated, he was really paranoid that I would, and when I talked to someone else and didn't tell him, he freaked out and broke up with me. What things can I do to slowly start things up again? I've written him a letter, but dont know when/if to give it to him. Is now too soon? We're not speaking as of now, except for one short angry phone call from him. I'm really sorry and will do anything! ANY advice will help...except moving on to someone else, because I'm not doing that anytime soon. I want him to see that he's the only one for me. User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Female Make a break Move on....QUICKLY! Make a clean break and don't look back. This guy looks at your phone? He reads your e-mails? What you have here is an abuser. I know. I have lived that life. You are in a dangerous situation and you need to take care of yourslef and make a break immediately. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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