Does this mean that she just doesnt want to be with me?We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Male My girlfriend of 2 years just broke up with me a couple days ago. The reason was because "she is doing it for herself" and she said she "Doesnt want to be with anyone right now for a while and she has to much on her plate at the moment." Does this mean that she just doesnt want to be with me? Or when women say this is this a kind of defense mechanism so they can avoid hurting us guys? I can't put into words my feelings towards her, she is everything to me. Although I am still young (19) and she is (18) we honestly believed that we would one day prove our love together. We had broken up once before because we needed space. And now this time she is the only one who needs it. She just started driving and she just turned 18 and is finishing school so I'm thinking these things could have some effect on her being so overwhelmed and maybe I should give her time. However with the way she worded the breakup I'm not completely convinced it is over. Should I give her some time and confront her about it? Or just wait for her to come to me? I'm still in love with her and have the best intentions in mind. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks! User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male Keep trying yeah my g/f just broke up with me she is the one who said i love you first now she just has to much on her plate she says but she says she still love me even more then her b/f and to make it worse it was lonf distance so just keep trying i am i just dont no it i should but i want you to keep on trying i like to see people happy even if it ainy me much luck i guess from your new lil helper j* The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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