He is my exboyfriend, but he doesn't want to date right nowWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female I have this benifit friend. He is my exboyfriend,but he dosen't want to date right now and we kiss and stuff,but no sex I'm only 17 and he is to. I love him so much I want to be with him but he dosen't. He holds me and looks in my eyes with pasion. He had loved me before, but he is the that broke up with me and the one that wanted to start out slow. I had agnored him and after a while we talked. We meet like around 9 b4 he goes running. and he says Im the only girl that he has kissed in while before summer started. well we had been broken up for about 4months and I got an e-mail from him he wanted to be friends {nothing more} but he's like always all over me when no one elese is around. He told me he missed me, but we havent talked about love but thats what I want I want him to love him and him to love me again. I feel like we still had what we had before. but he admits that he just wants to be friends with benifits. but I feel like I'm his convence when ever he wants to make out.How can I get it turned all around to wear we are boyfriend and girlfriend agian and love each other. "love like we had before." User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female Not the right guy? hey i am in the same situation like you, and i don't know what to do because i do love him but he broke up with me and told me that he just want to be my friend but we still do things that boyfriend and grilfriend do.I want to be with this guy so very much but he doesn't understand that. There for i convince my self that everything happen for a reason maybe he was not the right guy for me maybe the guy thats suppose to be with me is on the way. But who knows? we might end up back together. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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