I wish I could tell him how much I love himWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female Dear romance class, Its been two weeks since my boyfriend broke up with me. Theres not a day that goes by when i don't think about him. Hes the first thing I think about when I wake up and the last thing I remember before I sleep. When we were together, we felt what the other person felt. When one of us was hurting, we both hurt. When one of us was happy, we both laughed. Unlike everyone else in my ife, he was the one person I felt comfortable with. We understood eachother and opened up emotionaly. We were both happy. He told me that this was the first time in a while that he had been so happy with me. I was thinking the same way. I was falling in love. But I was pushing him away. (ignoring him in the hallways) I was affraid of being hurt. Affraid of hurting him. Affraid of falling in love. People come up to me at school and they tell me the main reason why he broke up with me was because he thought I didn't like him anymore. Now, atleast, we say "hey" whenever we see eachother. (which is everyday) When I look into his eyes, my heart races. My stomach twists. I'm still in love with him. People at school go up to him and ask him why doesn't he give me another chance. He tells them that he'll think about it. Some of his friends even come up to me and ask if I really did like him or not. All I want now is him. I wish I could tell him that he's the only one I want to be with. I wish I could tell him how much I love him, that I miss him and that it doesn't make any sense for us to be apart and look for something that we already have. I'm positive that he's waiting for me to make the first move since the breakup was mainly my fault. Please help me! How should I approach him, and when I do, what should I say? User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female Tell him dear Visitor, i think that you should go up to him and say " i need to talk to you." you can talk to him then or after school. but it has to be just you and him there. then when you talking to him say " look i love you the reason i broke up with you is because i am scared that i mit get hurt. or you mit get hurt. and i am scaed of falling in love brcause i have never been in love be for." and also say " but i know that the preson i want to be my frist love is you know i know it is you. you are my frist love and i am just scared os please tack me back. i am lost with out you. all day all i think about is you. i think about you when i am awack and when i am asleep. i think that is what you should do honey. and i know you are in love and if it doessn't wrok out then i guess it just was not ment to be. and i know you will find someone else. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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