Is it possible to love two men but just in different ways?We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female Okay I have been married for a year and a half and well to be honest my heart was broken when I got married. It was broken by my one true love because he was cheating on me and then we broke up and he went to jail. Then my husband came along and we dated for like a month and got married. Well I have been in love with my ex since high school, and he got my address and started writing me from jail about how he loved me and things were gonna change. I mean I have loved him for seven years, I wanted to believe him. So In October he got out of jail and one night while my husband was at work we met up and just talked. Nothing more happened and just being around him made me feel alive so the next time he called me, we met back up and this time we had sex. My husband don't know anything about this. He has no clue what so ever. This has gona on now for three months. Me and my ex randomly get together and things happen. He says he wants to be with me and he loves me but I don't know whether to believe him or not. What do I do? Do I leave my husband for my ex who just got outta jail, has no job, no money, and no place to live? Or do I stay with my husband and keep this whole thing a secret? it's tearing me apart. Is it possible to love two men but just in different ways? User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female Same thing I am kinda in the same situation, but he is still in jail and we aren't talking or writing anymore. I am married and have been married for almost 12 years (i married young) I ave a few children and a very successful husband. My husband and I have both cheated,I on the other hand had a full fledge affair with this man "wade" and I am still in love with him VERY MUCH! I love the life my husband has given me and our children I just dream of a life with "wade". I've been in love with him for almost 6 years! the affair was on and off. His family hates me and he is very much a mamas boy, she has someone intercepting his letters and he has noone but her she is at every visit and we live in a small town where everyone knows if you sneeze! I just feel there is no way to get to him, We've talked about me leaving my husband but I want to know if he really wants me. And I read your problem and see yours has NO job or anything and I don't want that.... I'm driving myself crazy and need to get to him What do you suggest being you have been there, too. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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