I Broke his Trust - He LeftWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and a half. When we first started dating he would never let me see my friends and one time I lied to him and went out behind his back. He found out and ever since then he won't trust me. Just today my sister brought up the past and he broke up with me. He has been acting really distant lately and I think that was his hole to get out of the relationship. We really do love eachother and talk about marriage but every so often he gets really mad. But he broke up with me this time and gave me back the nice watch I got for him and wont' even talk to me. I want him back but I don't know what to say or do to make him realize how much I love him. He won't even sit down and talk to me about it so it's really hard. And I don't want him to go out this weekend with his friends because he might be around other girls. Please help. User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female Be patient hi there, looks like i went thru same as u b4. Wut i liked about man who controls a lot is, they express their love thru our mistakes that we make without them realising it. But if we keep on making the poor guy gettin angrier, like wut ur sis did(to remind him) he'll walked out of our life. But thats always not the end of everythin! YOU can stil get him back, trust me! If there's a will, there's a way. You have to be very very positive n believe in the sound of ur heart! When he doesnt wanna sit down n talk to u, it indicates that he needs his time to b without u. Dont stop him from goin out with other girls. Cus not every girl knows how to please a man! the girl who truly love that man, knows how to please him the way he wants to be pleased. So if u think & also believe u hold that key to please him, u gotta b patient n control ur urge of 'i want him back' to the urge that i will b that one special girl which he is searchin for in every other girls! to do that, b his buddy n learn his character, emotions, his psycology, and how he loves his mom, sisters! Also food makes men happy. Do learn to cook his fave meal n one day serve him the good food u make for him as a buddy BUT NEVER talk bout the past which only makes him mad. If someday, he does talk about it, LAUGH AT THE PAST AND TOLD HIM YOU WERE CHILDISH THEN. and you had learnt from ur mistakes! The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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