My abusive husband says he'll changeWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Female I have been married for 12 years - met my husband at 19 yrs old...was never ga ga in love it was more of a comfort thing. He has been verbally abusive and controlling - we had a few day separation in which he says he has "seen the light" and is attempting to change. Prob is that I met another guy who is much older (spouse and i are both 33) I am really kind of ga ga over this guy and he really like me too. he is separated from his wife, says he wants to be w/me but he is not a homewrecker.... I am afraid to make any decision right now and could really use some advice..I am an at home mom - no income of my own - everything is in my husband's name - no family to turn to - what do I do?? User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Female Be careful ladies i am staying away from men right now., i divorced my abusive ex husband. and single and met someone who really turned out to be a nightmare, he stole from me and my mother after purposing to me... he was doing heroin and oxicotin. come to find out he was doing drugs the whole time and got me pregnant purposely to support his drug habit. i was sick to my stomache. i just had an abortion i was 6 weeks pregnant. i am still in shock but scared to date and learned my lesson about moving fast. i did not want a drug baby and did not want to be forever stuck with a drug addict.. he is in prison now he try to collect call me but i wont answer it im all done with him. after my ex husband abused me i promised myself i would never deal with sh*t again and i stuck with it. now thats my story., call it bad luck or call it life.. there is alot of horrible men out there trying to destroy women. i think i will stay alone with my child.... so be careful ladies. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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