Do I tell my boyfriend I cheated on him? Or the guilt will be enough?We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female I had a boyfriend at college. I went home on break and got back with my ex of four yrs who i deeply loves and he loves me back. I came back to school and told my boyfriend here i got back with my ex...which hurt him. I then slept with the ex boyfriend at college...I feel horrible. Im not sure if it was because he is here and my boyfriend is not. I still like him though. The college boy has everything good the ex is not so good and my parents dont even like him. Without hurting either any more what do i do? Do i tell my boyfriend i cheated on him? Or the guilt will be enough User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male Just be honest You need to tell the truth to bouth of them. It is hard to come out but if you don't you will never be able to trully start a knew relationship or continue your old one. You see I was cheated on by my X gf and she never told me that she cheated on me but she would cry for no reason during a lond time. I always used to question her oboute that but she would never give a reason. Later I found out that she had lied to me about many things. She was going to Miami and spending time with her SPSVLY good friend. After learning that, I broke it off and I'm still hurt but I did the right thing I was honest with her. She PRBLY feels like crap now becouse I dont want nothing to do with her not eaven her friendship. You see, if she would have been honest and told me aboute her cheating I would have at least considerd being her friend and PRBLY respected her for her honesty. I know that she will never be able to be trully happy becouse that will always be with her. SO JUST BE HONEST..Good luck. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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