I think maybe he was the one, but now its too late.



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I went out with a guy for 3 years and he was really great. it took me much longer to fall in love with him than him for me (like 4 months). we had problems but things were usually great. i sometimes got board with sex and i cheated on him 4 times in 3 years. i broke up with him to go away to school and didnt ask him to come because i wasnt sure i wanted that. Now we fight and have stoped speaking, i think he is totally over me and says im just annoying him. Its been 7 months since the break and i can't seem to get him out of my head, I cry and am depressed a lot and sometimes feel really panicy, I really dont know what to do. I think maybe he was the one, but now its too late. Getting him back is not really an option but what can i do for myself?




User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Missing him


i just broke up with my boyfriend. its been a mounth. things was going real good but sometimes i did'nt like the things he do. like somethimes he don't want to be seen with me and keep wanting me to do things that i don't want to do and it have to do with sex. but after we broke up i think about what i done wrong and i be missing him alot. i can't get him out of my mind. other then the things i don't like about him i think about the things i do like about me. he give me complements every day and tell me i look good on days when i really don't. i wrote him a latter telling him that i was sorry. but he still don't care. somethimes i think he still have felling for me because of the way he look at me.

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