confused and sadWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male me and my girlfriend dated for 11 monthes and have been broken up for 2 weeks now. I still talk to her and made the mistake of calling her a couple times since then because i cant stop thinking about her.She knows that i still love her and want to be with her, but she doesnt seem to care. when i called the last time she told me she didnt want to go with me to the dance and that ahe had asked one of my frinds to go with her. then she told me that while we were dating she had a crush on him and when he got a girlfriend she was super jealous. When she told me that i got really mad and said somethings i shouldnt have said. I didnt call her any names or anything like though. The next day i told her i was sorry for the way i acted and she told me she didnt care. She told all of her friends what i said and now its really awkward when im with them or her.i still sit with her because her friends are pretty much my friends now too. After i told her i was sorry i told her that i wanted to try and be friends and she told me she told me that she didnt want to be freinds right now and for me to never call her again. I m not sure if its because she is upset or if she just hates me now. I still love her and want to be with her but i just dont know what to do User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male Move on My I say this sounds a lot like someone obsessing over an X. She need more space than she's given. And when someone says not that much it's probably time to move on and stay unspoken friends! The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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