I'm so confusedWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male I have been dating a girl for about a year and a half. We both love each other very much. We recently broke up over a fight that we had. We went about a week with out talking to each other. I sent her a e-mail saying that I wanted to take things slow and talk on the phone and maybe go out one night. She started calling every day. I sent her a text message asking her to go out to eat one night and we did. I also stayed at her house the next night. We had plans on going out saturday shopping. Friday I get a call from her saying that she is headed out of town to the beach for the weekend to meet her sister. I called her sister and asked her about it. She said she had no idea what she was talking about. Turns out she went out of town to see her ex. They talked on the phone on occasion while we were dating, but never saw each other.I just don't know what to do. I think she wants her cake and to eat it to. How should I go about getting her back. This guy is a total creep and cheated on her atleast 2 times, once with her best friend. What do I do? User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male Find another boy there r other girls out there and well if she doesn't want u, u need to move on with ur life.. u can't be like that over a girl.. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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