I just feel so guiltyWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female Please help me romanceclass. I'm 17 and I had been talking to this guy, (the first one I ever talked to like that), and he immediately was honest about how he felt about me and I stalled. I took some time and he sort of grew on me. And just when I had begun liking him more and more, I gave a different guy my number. Thats not the worst part. I started getting to know this guy and he's cool. And then I gave my number to another guy, (who I dont talk to anymore), and then another guy I met after prom (I didnt invite the first guy to prom for some reason) and started (and am still) talking to him. I dont know if the first guy has any idea and all I feel is guilt over knowing and willfully hurting him. I dont know what to do. Should I talk to him (we were never officially boyfriend and girlfriend,but I'm pretty sure he thinks we are)? If so, what should I say? Should I stop talking to the other guys? What if I hurt them too? I never meant to hurt anyone, but I did it anyway. I feel so, so terrible. Please give me advice... Sorry its so long. User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female No harm, no foul Heres the deal, if you guys didn't say you're exclusivethen it follows the no harm, no foul rule. If he gets mad, he's a chump. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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