How to keep boyfriendWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female This guy that I had known for little while came across to be a very cool guy. All along I had a thought in the back of my head that his extraordinary character had to be too good to be true. He always asked me to go out with him and i never did. It just so happened that one night I was one his block, so i rang his bell. I went into his house and it was in darkness. He said that he had a problem with the electricity in his building. That should of been the first clue for me to leave I didn't. Of course he came on to me and at first I was reluctant, he began to undress me and penetrated me, then i realized that I couldn't hurt my boyfriend. But it was already too late. I shouldnt have been there in the first place. I wanted to tell him. But i couldnt get the guts to. He found out. It happened 3 weeks ago. He is terribly hurt and upset with me. He has hurt me many times before and I've always been passive and gave him chances because I love him so much. But he says that this has crossed the line. He says he still loves me, but he doesn't know if it'll work out. But i'll do anything to make this work. What should I do? User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female Say you're sorry just tell him that you care about him. It may work out for ya'll but it didn't work out for me and my boyfriend. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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