How do I live with myself knowing what Ive done?



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I cheated on my fiance of 2 years with his brother. I know what I did was wrong, I told my now husband and were working through this whole nightmare. He seems to be doing really well coping with things ya know. I just feel so ashamed and mad at myself. I need some advice on how to forgive myself for what Ive done. I have found out that there were very valuable lessons to be learned in this situation.Do you think he will ever speak to his brother again, and am I ever going to be able to forgive myself. Someone tell me that Im not the only one that has made this mistake. Please I really need some advice.




User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Female
Everyone makes mistakes


Why did you do it if you knew it was wrong? yeah every1 makes mistakes and even my x did

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