am i the only one to blameWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female The guy that i was cheating with and I recently broke up, I decided my marriage was best. I have never cheated before, so i was confused and lied to this other man that I had been seeing. The guy that i was seeing works at the job where I work, and went and told everyone a bunch of vicious lies about me, and even calls me profane names. He sent five instant messages to me, each one with something derrogatory to say, and he claims that everyone I work with knows about what a liar I am, and no one likes me there anymore, including him. I havent said anything like that back to him, I have pretty much kept cool and calm and told him that I should not have cheated to begin with, because it was wrong of me to do so. This guy knew I was married from the beginning, and I told him no the first time when he asked me out. He even told me that all of this is my fault, and he was a christian before i came into his life. My question is I know I am to blame for this, but is he to blame as well? User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female Tell your husband girl im going something like that right as i speak and it so hard i know my ex is mad cz i have a boy friend well what i advise to you is to talk to your husban and tell him what happening and what had happen its gonna worst if you dont talk to the at your and tell them what really happen the true story they will understand trust me The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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