should I stay or should I go?We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female I've been with my fiance for 9 months now and I am currently having his child. We live together and things were going great at first but now everytime he gets a day off of work we always argue. He always wants me to pick up after him and he always wants me to go the extra mile for him but he never pushes out any efort for me and im carrying his child. I want to make this relationship work for my child but how much can a woman take? I want to him to be someone he's not. Should I leave him and find someone new or should I stay and try to make it work for the child's sake? Please Help! User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female Hang in there I say stay with him if you can get through this your relationship will only get stronger it has its ups and downs but once the baby comes i feel sure he'll come around and be the perfect husband/father i really hope for you the best! if it gets any worse just try to talk to him about it. don't yell and try to avoid fights or you could write him a letter describing what you would like out of him for you guys to make this work if he loves you im sure he will start helping around believe me neither of you want fights or something that could disrupt your relationship hang in there! The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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